but all the doctors keep wasting my time.. i go into the nearest city once a week with him and he has play therapy. i have to sit outside. there not helping at all and im desperate now!
the first doctor said she thought it was attachment disorder.. the second adhd.. and the first and the third doctor said they didnt think it was adhd..

they all keep telling me hes too young to be diognosed and everything doesnt add up.
my auntie and her friend swear its aspergers but hes good at making eye contact..

what is it most likely to be.. does it sound aspergers? or adhd or attachment disorder? can anyone with experience let me know? desperate

symptoms he has:

severe behavioural problems e.g bit teacher, doesnt listen appears deaf,
seems to be a bit behind: eg doesnt wipe his bottom properly yet and VERY messy eater
seems to be very social and friendly if he says hello first if not hes ignorant
constantly fidgeting, or pulling weird faces
hes muttered realy nasty things under his breath at me for no reason at all
attacked a school boy in his nursery
fought with another
runs away in shops touches everything, has tantrums screams at me and says im squeezing his hand and or hurting him when im not so i have to let him go

as soon as im out the room hel do something bad to the cat/ kitten so i have to take them in bath with me

he headbutts the coach, and fake falls over on it, he wont do anything hes asked

he slapped an old lady at the bus stop across the face

he says things out loud: like i dont like that mans face its horrible, or mam that man smells
hed eat sweeties 24hours,

theres too much too say ! i forget everytime i go to write it down coz theres so much! help please..

What Will Be  the Best Selling Christmas Toys 2009

The Ben 10 Series was chosen as the toy of the year 2008 by the Toy Retailer Association. In 2007, the award went to a set of toys from In the Night Garden. The popular theme tends to be a toy associated with a well-known children’s TV character. This pattern is likely to repeat itself in 2009. Toys connected to television characters have an advantage over other toys because kids are familiar and can identify with them.

Rubik cube was the top choice as the best puzzle on the market in 2007. Its popularity didn’t slow down and was still going strong right up until  Christmas 2008. In fact, it was on the best selling toy list for Amazon last year. Rubik cube is an old toy but still holds a fascination for adults and children of all ages.

As toys for girls, Sylvannian figures and houses won awards in 2007 and 2008 consecutively. Girls love these cute collectible animals which have a wide range of accessories. I am confident that they will again be on the best selling list for girls, just like lego which will be the best selling construction toy for boys.

If you are a mom, I hope you’ll have a general idea as to what to buy for your kids this Christmas. Shopping online is wonderful because it saves you a lot of time and money. You often find bargains, discounts, coupons and other giveaways that you don’t usually find when you go shopping in person. Take your time comparing the deals from several websites. You don’t need to make a decision quickly because you may regret it later when you find a better deal somewhere else.

There are some superb tech gifts on the market to thrill and enthrall the whole family. The big ones this year include the incredible Playstation 3, the portable and engrossing Nintendo DS Lite, Apple’s latest version of the iPod nano (now with skew and augmented shuffle functions) and a wide range of home theater ideas such as widescreen HD TVs, Blu Ray players and fantastic new sound systems. For the gamer who has everything, how about a gaming chair? That way the lengthy periods spent sat at the controls won’t harm their bodies so much.

There’s some great items out for the girls, including the My Life Virtual Console, pink laptops, pink guitars and more. Traditional girls’ toys include the adorable baby Born with Magic Potty doll, the Chou Chou My First Tooth doll, some great merchandise from the High School Musical films and the wonderful Girl Gourmet Cupcake maker, that the whole family will be able to enjoy.

For the boys, some of the most wanted toys this Christmas include the Ben 10 Omnitrix replica, the Power Rangers Operation Overdrive Tracker, the hugely popular Star Wars Clone Trooper Voice Changer helmet, the Indiana Jones Whip and Hat set and the fun Catcha Beats game too.

For fans of animal toys there are some brilliant ideas on the market this year. There’s the huge Kota the Triceratops for starters, and there is a wide range of interactive animal toys from the makers of the Furreal range, with The Furreal Biscuit, My Lovin’ pup being the most popular. There are lots of other animal friends to choose from in the FurReal range too. There’s also the cute Honey, My Pony toy horse.

For younger kids, the most popular toy by far is the wonderful Elmo Live toy by Fisher price, an all singing, all dancing Elmo that will become your childrens’ best friend with his stories, songs and dances.

For the family, how about a fun board game? there are some excellent new games out there now such as Pictureka or 20q, but the old favourites are back with a vengeance New editions of Monopoly (Monopoly Here and Now World edition), Scrabble, Cluedo, Etch a Sketch and the legendary Rubik’s Cube are all available to keep everyone entertained while Christmas dinner settles. There really is something out there for everyone, so don’t delay in seeking out the best toys and gifts for Christmas. All the very best season’s greetings to you, and have a prosperous new year!

As ever, TV and film items are popular, but there are also some great new additions to the market for Boys Toys at Christmas 2008. Here are some of the items that kids are wanting this year:

Transforming WALL.E: the definitive WALL-E toy based on the adorable robot from the hit film.

Bakugan Starter Pack and battle Arena: The starter set and huge battle arena from the hot new trading game.

Air Hogs Zero Gravity Micro: A micro radio controlled car that is capable of incredible stunts.

Transformers Animated Roll Out Command Optimus Prime: Here is Optimus Prime from the new Transformers cartoon, standing 12 inches tall and featuring ‘Auto Spin’ conversion.

Cars Walkin’ Talkin McQueen: McQueen comes to life with lights and sound, and he walks and talks just like in the animated film.

Star Wars Clone Trooper Voice Changer: This full-head replica helmet features technology that will transform kids’ voices into the processed rasp of a Clone Trooper.

Ben 10 Deluxe Omnitrix: A great toy replica of Ben’s wrist-mounted device from the TV show, used for calling aliens to do battle.

Power Rangers Overdrive Tracker: great toy replica of the Morpher from the TV show, with lights and sound.

Gormiti Island of Gorm Playset: A superb playset designed to display Gormiti figures on in an action setting.

Indiana Jones Sounds FX Hat & Whip: The title4 says it all. Now kids can dress up as the movie adventurer.

Star Wars: The Clone Wars AT-TE: The formidable vehicle from the Star wars: Clone Wars movie and TV series comes with articulated legs, lights and sounds.

WWE RAW Arena Playset: The wrestling phenomenon comes to your living room! A superb playset for fans of the theatrical wrestling movement.

GIRLS TOYS FOR CHRISTMAS 2008 The girls are also very interested in media tie-in merchandise, but some old favourites are still going strong too, along with some great new items on the market.

High School Musical Sing Together Dolls: From the Disney hit come Gabriella, Troy and Sharpay dolls with microphones. The dolls sing their signature song from the film and sing along with kids.

Barbie Princess Liana Singing Doll: The Princess Liana comes in a day dress, which transforms into a ball gown. Her necklace lights up as she sings songs from the accompanying DVD.

FurReal Biscuit, My Lovin’ Pup: One of the biggest hits this Christmas for kids is the FurReal Biscuit toy dog, a life-size golden retriever puppy with some fantastic interactive features, movement and sounds.

Littlest Pet Shop Tail Waggin’ Fitness Club: This great play-set gives your toy pets a fun fitness workout, with a spinning hamster wheel, hurdles and more. The play-set also includes two pet toys.

Littlest Pet Shop VIPs: These cute plushes include a code that allows you to play your favourite characters online in the Littlest Petshop Virtual environment.

Sylvanian Families Old Hollow Oak Treehouse: The classic toy line returns with this beautiful new play-set, featuring multiple indoor rooms and outdoor living spaces.

I Love Ponies Honey, My Baby Pony: Honey, My Baby Pony is a lap size interactive pet foal including real pony sounds and movement.

BABY born with Magic Potty: Baby Born with Magic Potty is one of the most wanted dolls on the market this year and features eight different movements, lights and sound.

CHOU CHOU My First Tooth: Another hit doll this year is the CHOU CHOU – This 48cm doll comes with a teething/nurturing play modes and realistic baby sounds.

Rescue Pets Swim to Me Puppy: The Rescue Pets Swim to Me Puppy is a cute stray puppy that will swim when placed in water.

Bratz Girlz Really Rock Dolls: The famous toy line is back with the Bratz Girlz Really Rock Dolls, which come with 2 outfits and 2 musical instruments each.

Camp Rock Gift Pack: the new TV musical sensation comes to the toy world with this great double pack of characters.

There’s countless other items on the market for Christmas 2008, but these are amongst the most desired by kids at the moment, and hopefully this will give you some pointers on finding the perfect gifts for Santa to put under your tree this year. You can reduce your stress levels (and the cost of the festive season) by shopping online, and also reduced the headaches by checking out some of these great examples of the current toy market. Merry Christmas one and all.

I want to know what sort of toys your kids play with often, that gets its money’s worth.

Creative, sporty, game, action figures etc etc – if you have a toy that you seriously suggest avoiding please mention as well – some toys look great to you actually see them in action, or fall apart quickly or require mega strong batteries that still die quickly.

 

Keeping this in mind, the recently launched superstore toy chain, Smyths, has begun its predictions of the hottest toys for this year with their own top list of hot toys for Christmas 2008. Smyths has taken into account all the trends, advance orders and customer requests and combined this with 21 years of experience in the toy business to produce the perfect wish list for any kid’s Christmas.

 

On the top of any boys toy-shopping list is a Ben 10 Action toy. At the moment, the most popular of these toys is the Ben 10 Alien Laboratory Set – fans of the show can’t get enough of this fabulous play set which is modeled on the character’s bus. Open it up to reveal a lab within and create your own Aliens from the reusable clay. This action toy also includes Alien rocks and Animation discs from the Ben 10 cartoon series. For only £27.99, this is a true bargain and the perfect gift for any Ben 10 enthusiast.

 

Boys will also go crazy for the Bakugan starter pack. Priced at £12.99, this exciting card trading game will keep any child amused and trading crazy creatures for hours. For further hi-tech creature catching thrills, buy the Catcha Beast e-pet game! These exciting games let your reel in digital monsters and swap them with friends. For real-life action and adventure though, nothing beats the Clone Wars Ultimate Lightsabre set, which lets every person create their very own realistic sabre for battles with their friends, competitively priced at only £37.99.

 

We haven’t forgotten about the girls either! The Hannah Montana Secret Pillow lets every little girl keep their own secret diary, having a blast at the same time with the built-in speakers which can connect to any MP3 player. This is the perfect gift for only £19.99. For the little superstar in your life, the High School Musical Sing Together Dolls, complete with their own microphones will transform playtime into karaoke time! Looking for a little puppy toy to play with? The Rescue Pals Swim to Me Puppy will paddle with your little girl during bath time and even comes with his own goggle and towel, a steal at £27.99. For a proper puppy to cuddle, try Fur Real Biscuit – My Lovin’ Pup. This doggie is so realistic that he responds to your commands just like a real dog would, a real dog for only £129.99.

 

Looking for a more interactive experience? Smyths Toys has the hottest video game console in stock: the Nintendo Wii. This family-friendly console will get you moving with its wide selection of insanely fun titles. The Wii is a bargain at only £179.99. Looking for something a little more compact? The Nintendo DS Lite is a favourite of both boys and girls and with its dual-screen touch action; anyone can get in on the game. This console comes in a host of cool colours for only £99.99.Finally, say hello to Elmo Live, the latest version of this smash-hit Sesame Street character. Elmo sings, sits and chats with your child and this truly amazing toy can be yours for only £54.99

 

So leap into Christmas 2008! This fine selection of toys is sure to keep the child in your life happy and smiling throughout the festive season. With a selection like this, it’s no small wonder that Smyths Toys is the leading provider of children’s entertainment throughout Ireland and the greater London area.

 

I’ve already looked around Ebay and Cartoon Network. If you know an Ebay store though that would be awesome.